Cool Cat.

Every woman opens her phone and sees perfection everywhere today. Success everywhere. Confidence and certainty everywhere. A happy life everywhere. Love everywhere. 

And when this is all you see, you start thinking you are supposed to be meticulously perfect too. In your life. In your body. In your career. In your timeline. In love. But real happiness does not look like that. It starts chaotic. It is never sleek and linear. Everything requires work. Work you never see on those screens. But getting clear about and remembering that fact does not lower your aspiration or should discourage you. On the contrary. Those stories are grounding your dreams into reality; they do not crush your inspiration before you even begin. 

So, show up when nothing seems to work. Do it when no one is watching. Walk the next step, even when it feels like you are not moving forward a millimeter. Ask the questions. Do it again and again. Because that part of you, that part that tells the truth behind a beautiful woman, never makes it online.

​Ute